Insecurities
“How do I stop this feeling of insecurity whenever I’m with a guy I like?”
How about you stop comparing yourself to others? I mean, you are unique in your own way.
I am certain that every woman is special. Women carry different characteristics that blend their personality and for sure, some may be better or worse than you. However, that doesn’t make you or them less of a woman.
You see, comparison kills confidence. It destroys your ability to believe in yourself.
First, be confident in your own beauty and qualities. Stop comparing yourself to others. Erase your unwanted thoughts and divert it into doing the things you love and those things that can improve you as an individual. For instance, read books about embracing your own beauty. Or go for a hike and refresh your mind. Or treat yourself to something you really love.
Second, stop worrying about others’ opinion of you, particularly the guy you like. It will just frustrate you and may cause your anxiety to worsen. Deal with them naturally. A good connection with someone is not by being overly anxious of their reaction, but by treating them as naturally as you can. In that way, you will be able to create a lasting impression that men love.
Source: Quora
