INFIDELITY
How can I make my husband stop cheating and get madly in love with me back?
Oh, that’s one mission impossible right there.
It’s already way out of your control to change your husband’s actions, to force him to stop cheating, or get him madly in love with you again. The choice to change must come from him.
However, you can still play a positive role and influence his decisions. Here’s what you can try, even though it won’t be easy and there are no guarantees:
- Start with open communication. It might sound basic, but talking honestly and openly about how his actions affect you could make a difference. It’s important to express your feelings and concerns.
- Give your husband attention and affection. Make him feel loved, his feelings may be swayed when he feels that there is no love like his wife’s love.
- Prioritize your relationship. Show him that you’ll do whatever it takes to keep your relationship — marriage intact.
- Consider professional help. Couples therapy might provide a space to explore your issues and work on healing your relationship together.
Remember, the outcome depends on many factors, including how both of you engage in these efforts. If he still persisted despite your obvious efforts, then, it may be time to take steps onto moving on.
The most important thing here is that you’re making an effort to address the situation — that alone says a lot about your commitment and strength.