SEXUALITY
“How do women feel about men and their body count? Is this an issue, and why?”
The thing is, some women will care while others won’t.
For those who see it as an issue, the concern is often about a guy’s ability to be loyal. If they’ve slept with a lot of women, can they resist the temptation when they’re already in an exclusive relationship?
Will they also be able to handle a serious and committed partnership, not just a casual and physical one?
And for women who don’t care about body count, I’d imagine their only question would be if a guy’s previous relations were safe and consensual.
Personally, I don’t think a man’s body count defines who he is or what kind of lover he’ll be. As long as he’s not treating it as some kind of game, and he’s willing to make a relationship work where it counts, it doesn’t have to be a deal-breaker if their body count is high.