5 Fun Benefits of Matchmaking Tours in a Group
It’s lonely.
That’s the usual feeling you get if you’ve ever had to go by yourself on a business trip. Or perhaps you were meeting up with friends or relatives at the port to sail on that reserved Caribbean cruise you spent months planning. But you only found out later that they had to cancel at the last minute. So as not to waste your ticket, you ended up going alone.
Sure, it might be fun to go solo on a trip once in a while, but while you’re on those trips exploring a new country and trying out different culinary feats and sights, it can be more entertaining and exciting to share those experiences with friends.
It doesn’t have to be with people you already know. I’m sure you’ve struck up conversations while on your travels. Maybe on a plane ride, you met an interesting person and had a conversation about your general itinerary. You find something in common and before you know it, you’re just about to disembark from the plane.
In my line of work, we always suggest that both sides directly meet their love interest in the flesh. It has the benefit of encountering different kinds of experiences that you can have apart from online interactions. This helps you to find out if you have long-term compatibility with each other.
The problem is, due to the high demand load of managing these in-person meetings by our clients, we have resorted to setting up our tours that cater to groups of men at a time to not only meet their love interest but the opportunity to meet other women that they also have interest in meeting on the tour if they so choose.
This arrangement ensures that they walk away knowing that the lady they chose is the one for life or if it fizzled out, he is one step closer to knowing what he wants in a relationship.
But while he is there, apart from the service staff, he is traveling within the company of other men just like himself. So what might be the benefit of a group of men looking for an honest relationship together? Here are some statements that struck me the most when I had conversations with some of the men on tour.
1. “The more the merrier.”
It might seem cliche, but like having a meal or watching a movie together with friends, it always improves the quality of the experience.
As humans, doing things in a group helps boost the mood of each person. Sharing happy moments with others leads to positive hormones being released into our brains, which leads to positive emotions.
It also gives you a chance to get out of your shell if you’re introverted or shy. It gives everyone a fair chance to be a part of the group with an individual goal in common.
2. “You can learn from other peoples’ experiences.”
Sure, you can do your research. But nothing beats being able to chat about the actual love stories of people you meet on tour with romance in mind.
They say that experience is the best teacher, so you will be able to learn about the past love experiences of the guys in the group and if you have something to share, you can help others with your love experiences in the past.
3. “You can compare notes on how you are feeling.”
Are you wondering if the one you’re interested in feels the same way as you? Do you have doubts about your assessment of your love interest’s behavior? It helps to get another opinion.
The more people present to ask, the more diverse approaches you have to address the situation at hand. If they all notice the way you are trying to court a woman needs improvement, all of them will see the same thing wrong in your approach and can provide a solution to your problem.
You can also ask for their advice when trying to read the behavior of the woman in question. They can provide good guesses and insights on what she might be feeling or thinking. Don’t just ask the guys, you can also ask other girls unrelated to both of you for advice.
You can never have enough help when it comes to finding true love.
4. “It can double as networking.”
Any kind of social event is also an opportunity to talk about non-relationship advice. Say you need financial help in the money markets or tips and techniques about how to finance a mortgage. There might be a fellow in the group who has knowledge and experience in those very fields.
Maybe it’s about insurance? The person you’re traveling with might know someone in need of your help with getting insured or vice versa if you work in that field.
You don’t just have fun, but getting to know someone on a personal level also allows for the possibility of opening up business contacts at the same time — after the trip of course.
5. “You have the opportunity to make new friends.”
Life is a journey and some say that it’s not the destination, but the memories made along the way. As you encounter new people, you won’t just be talking about each of your love stories and how you eventually ended up on the trip.
You might find hobbies in common. Maybe both of you love to ride motorcycles, play golf, or have the same passion for renaissance art. You’ll never know if you don’t go. There may be someone like you who is looking for love and also has the same passions in life as you do.
It’s not only about searching for love.
When I see these gentlemen searching for love in person, I don’t just see a group of clients, I see human beings on a stage of their life journey.
With every person, there will always be encounters along the way. Sometimes they might not be welcomed or are confusing, but for the most part, you find people who are just like you to whom you can relate.
Seldom have I seen competition on the tours that I’ve helped manage since naturally they have been designed in a way that each man has the best chance at finding the love of his life.
So if ever you have the chance to participate in matchmaking tours, don’t be shy. It’s a chance for you to socialize while searching for your future wife. Learn more about them and plan your trip today.
